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If you’re in a long-distance relationship, you’ve probably tried everything to stay sexually connected to your partner from afar: dirty phone calls, pic swapping, sexy letters, watching porn together online, etc. But there’s one tech-powered tool that you should add to your playbook: long-distance sex toys.

These toys include vibrators, dildos, and more, but can be operated from anywhere in the world via an app. This “remote access,” so to speak, allows you and your partner to have control over each other’s pleasure experience no matter where you’re located. Depending on how you use them, you may be able to discreetly use a toy in a public place (again, you can control them with an app) or even connect to an online community and give your consent to a faraway stranger to control your pleasure.

In other words: Whether you’re just wanting some sexy playtime at work across town, or to get raunchy with a partner on the other side of the world, these toys can make your sexy long-distance romp an unforgettable experience. We talked to three sexperts to get their recommendations on how to choose a long-distance sex toy—plus some of their favorite options on the market.

Features to look for when shopping for a long-distance sex toy

This form of long-distance sex play is known as teledildonics, and there are so many options from which to choose! Here’s how to narrow it down:

Toy type: What toys do it for you? Consider your favorite erogenous zones (aka parts of your body that you like stimulated) to buy toys that can enhance your pleasure in those areas. Odds are, there’s a long-distance version for you.
Sync settings: To feel more physically connected to your partner’s physical pleasure, choose toys that modify vibrations based on what your partner’s body is doing. This is called bi-directional syncing.
Toy compatibility: Variety in sex toys can be important, so checking which of your toys will sync together through one app can also make your long-distance romp much easier.
Audio / video capabilities: The best long-distance sex toys can sync to an audio or video feed seamlessly, so you don’t have to switch between an app for your toy and an app like Facetime to hear or see your partner’s reactions.
Material and quality: As when buying any other kind of sex toy, you’ll want to prioritize toys that are made of body safe materials like silicone and stainless steel—particularly if they’re going inside your body.

No matter what kind of stimulation you prefer (anal included), this guide will help you find an app-controlled sex toy to use with a partner or for secret solo play, wherever you are in the world.

The 17 best long-distance sex toys for couples that sex experts love

1. The best long-distance sex toy set

kiiroo onyx+ and pearl2 long distance sex toy set

Kiiroo Onyx+ & Pearl2 Couple Set — $289.00

Kiiroo specializes in toys that allow partners to feel bi-directional pleasure. In this set you get the Pearl2, a G-spot vibrator, and the Onyx+, a male masturbator that fits over a penis that hits up to 140 simulated strokes a minute.

According to Amira Williams, PhD, sex therapist and resident sexpert at LetsTalkSex, the toys will respond to each other during use via the brand’s app, “allowing couples to feel each other’s rhythm in real-time despite being miles apart, making it perfect for maintaining sexual intimacy in long-distance relationships.” The toys themselves are compatible for remote use with any other Kiiroo toy, so if you decide to branch out your collection, you’ll still be able to use them together.

The Onyx+ itself comes with a downside, and that’s penis fit. People with smaller penises (diameter less than 1.5 inches) will have to separately purchase a sleeve to ensure the toy fits properly. People with penises with a diameter larger than 1.7 inches will not be able to work with this toy.

Materials: ABS, silicone (Pearl2); ABS POM (Onyx)

Dimensions: 20 x 3.9 x 3.6 centimeters (Pearl2); 8.9 x 7.9 x 26.3 cm (Onyx)

Power: USB charging

Battery life: 1 hour

Pros:

Excellent bi-directional syncing
Sleek and sexy black design
Onyx toy has replaceable sleeves for ease and convenience
Great value for two toys

Cons:

Thinner penises need to purchase an adapter for maximum pleasure
Only includes a “male” and “female” toy